My husband has been cheating on me and left our family. He his so cold and distant. Blames everything on me, and says I turned our kids against him. Feels they should have never known about his cheating. The kids knew before I did and he doesn’t feel the need to be sorry. He hasn’t seen or talked to our kids in 9 months. I don’t understand how he could be this cruel. Our kids are adult but they still need a dad or am I wrong? Asking for prayers please ????????